Yes, We Really Can Have It All? Notes From a Corporate Baddie

In a world where the demands of work and personal life often clash, the question remains: Can we really have it all? This question resonates deeply with many professionals striving to achieve success without compromising their personal fulfilment. It is a question that I find profoundly relevant to my own journey.

My name is Vanessa Adams, or as some call me ‘The Corporate Baddie,’ and I have very many interesting sides to me, and I am excited to share them with you.

For my professional side, I’m the Team Lead of the Sales Unit called EMDO’s acronym for Embassies, Multilateral, and Development Organizations at Heirs Insurance Group. The journey so far has been nothing short of exhilarating. Here, I find myself at the intersection of professional success, personal fulfilment, and a myriad of special hobbies and passions. My journey has been a rich blend of diverse experiences and a relentless pursuit of Excellence, blending my professional ambitions with my personal passions and responsibilities.

From navigating the complexities of the Corporate World to indulging in my Creative shenanigans, I have carved out a unique niche that allows me to thrive both professionally and personally. My role at Heirs Insurance Group is a testament to my ability to balance these aspects, as I take on the exciting challenge of building strategic partnerships, representing the brand wholesomely, and driving towards our shared goals. This position allows me to showcase my strategic acumen and sales skills while contributing to our collective success.

This latest professional adventure not only tests my strategic and sales skills but also ignites my passion for innovation and leadership. It’s a thrilling journey that keeps me engaged, motivated, and constantly striving for the highest standards.

Here’s a glimpse into how I navigate the many facets of my life. Picture this: a dynamic professional career interwoven with vibrant personal passions. I’ve learned to balance these elements seamlessly, proving that it’s possible to harmoniously blend significant career achievements with deep personal interests. This journey of mine is a testament to the power of dedication and strategic planning, showing that with effort and foresight, one can excel in both professional and personal endeavours.

Professional Side: Navigating New Challenges
Taking on the new role of Team Lead has been a significant milestone in my career. This position has not only challenged me positively but has also provided me with a unique opportunity for growth in a demanding yet rewarding environment. All aspects of this position have required an unwavering commitment to Excellence, Enterprise and Execution which can further emphasise my dedication and adaptability.

By the way … my colleagues affectionately nicknamed me the “Corporate Baddie,” highlighting my ability to balance a demanding career with a fulfilling personal life.

For the non-GenZ in the back… Baddie refers to someone who is considered attractive, and stylish often used in a flattering or admiring way. For example, someone might say, “She’s a real baddie” to compliment someone’s appearance or confidence.

Moving on…

Motherhood: A Catalyst for Growth
Being a mother to my incredible three-year-old son has profoundly transformed my world, altered my perspective and impacted every aspect of my life.

Motherhood has been a transformative experience, shaping my personal growth and career trajectory in profound ways. My three-year-old son is my everything, and balancing work with parenting responsibilities has taught me the art of multitasking and prioritisation. The joy of motherhood has brought a new perspective to my life, enriching my professional endeavours with patience, empathy, and resilience. Despite my busy schedule, I ensure that I am present in his life, cherishing every moment and milestone.

At his school, He recently won the award for ‘Neatness and Good display of Morals’ as well as the award for being ‘The Most Kind and Helpful’. These accolades didn’t just reflect the values I work so hard to instil in him; they warmed my heart in ways words can scarcely capture. Seeing him recognized for these traits was a profound reminder of the impact of nurturing kindness and integrity, and it brought the biggest smile to my face as I walked across the stage holding his little hands, that moment was so pure and beautiful.

First, balancing work and parenting is no small feat. However, I have managed to create a harmonious blend of both worlds. This balance is a testament to my ability to organise, delegate, and remain focused on what truly matters. The skills I’ve honed as a mother have translated seamlessly into my professional life, where time management and adaptability are crucial.

Let’s keep going…

My Passion for Art: A Lifelong Journey
Art has always been a significant part of my life. From childhood, I discovered the joy of creating, a passion that has remained with me through the years. As a self-taught artist, I find solace and expression in my work. Art is not just a hobby; it is a therapeutic escape that allows me to unwind and reconnect with myself. The creative process fuels my imagination and provides a sense of accomplishment and peace.

Quick One —— Picture me creating a painting of the sunset on the beach with a sunset view—my painting of the sunset is not of the sunset before me, but rather an imagined sunset of my choice while watching an actual sunset and painting a different sunset. Sorry if that sounds confusing; it’s all part of the artistic process.

Art is not just a hobby for me; it is a therapeutic escape that allows me to unwind and reconnect with myself. The creative process fuels my imagination and provides a sense of accomplishment and peace, adding a vibrant creative dimension to my persona.

Recently, I’ve taken this passion to the next level by monetising it. Sharing my artwork with others and turning it into a business venture has been a thrilling and fulfilling experience.
Art is life, and it’s an exciting journey that I’m eager to continue exploring and expanding.

Entrepreneurial Spirit: Where It All Began – Mastering the Art of Automobile Sales
My entrepreneurial journey began over a decade ago with the launch of my automobile business, a venture that has thrived for almost 14 years. Thriving in a male-dominated industry for so long highlights not only my commitment and entrepreneurial spirit but also my strategic acumen and management prowess. It also underscores my people skills, essential for building strong relationships and leading teams effectively.

In the competitive world of automobile sales, where the landscape has traditionally been dominated by men, my path has been anything but conventional. Navigating this challenging terrain required not just grit and determination but also a sharp strategic mindset. Every obstacle encountered was met with innovative solutions and a relentless drive to succeed.
As my journey progressed, I ventured into the logistics industry too. This endeavour highlights my industrious nature and adaptability.

It is safe to say the sales skills acquired and developed over the years translated seamlessly into different areas of my life. The strategic thinking, relationship building and problem-solving abilities I acquired have now been invaluable in this stage of my life.

As the Team Lead of a sales team, I continue to leverage these skill sets to drive success as my experience in automobile sales has now equipped me with a unique perspective and expertise, enabling me to lead effectively and foster strong team dynamics. Basically, all the principles of success I mastered in both fields have paved the way for continued achievements in another.
SOMEBODY Please say BALANCE!

Stay with me…

Breaking Barriers: Women of Today
The perception of what women can achieve is continually evolving. My ventures challenge traditional norms and I want to inspire others to break barriers.

Women can excel in any field they choose. In 2024, the notion of having it all for women has evolved into a powerful narrative of multidimensional success. It’s no longer just about fitting into traditional moulds but about rewriting the rules and crafting a life that aligns with personal values, aspirations, and passions.

Imagine a woman like me, in her journey. She’s not just balancing roles; she’s redefining what it means to excel in multiple arenas. Her story reflects a broader shift—a movement towards embracing the full spectrum of possibilities.

Having it all today is about more than achieving professional milestones or managing a busy schedule. It’s about creating a life that feels whole and fulfilling. For women like me, it means the freedom to pursue a career with passion, nurture personal relationships, and stay true to oneself. It’s about breaking free from outdated stereotypes and celebrating the diverse paths women can take.

For women in 2024, having it all means being able to shape their own story, inspire others, and live a life that resonates deeply with their unique dreams and goals.

Don’t leave me…. Let’s continue

Sports: Energy and Discipline
Sports have always been a significant part of my life. I enjoy playing basketball, football, volleyball, lawn tennis, and table tennis, and I have a particular fondness for playing pool (snooker).

A memorable moment in my sports life was when I scored a goal against my former line manager Eric in a friendly football match — thankfully, it wasn’t an appraisal issue LOL!
Again, the lessons learned on the court or field translate into my everyday life, reinforcing the values of commitment, having a team-oriented mindset, collaboration and strategic thinking.

My involvement in sports not only keeps me fit but also instils a sense of discipline in me.

Music and Entertainment: The Fun Side
Beyond my professional and entrepreneurial endeavours, I am also a music enthusiast.

Surprisingly I can DJ a whole set and have everyone dancing till Mama calls. My love for music adds an element of fun and entertainment to my profile, showcasing my ability to bring joy and energy to any gathering. Leading to my other Nickname – GOV [ Goddess of Vibes] *Drops Mic*

*Picks Mic Back Up*

We are not done yet LOL……

Culinary Passion: AKA Foooood Lover!
Owning a food truck has always been a dream of mine, a vision that perfectly merges my love for cooking with my entrepreneurial spirit, providing a space where I can share my culinary creations with others.

While that dream is still in the works, I currently run a dynamic grill spot.

Although I don’t cook the meals myself, running this grill spot allows me to indulge in my culinary passion in a different way. I’ve created a space where several chefs fulfil their own dreams while consistently preparing delicious mouthwatering dishes.

Though the food truck dream is still on the horizon, the journey so far has been an exciting and gratifying step towards bringing the vision to life.

If I were to be a Chef, trust me to cook up a STORM!

*HEHEHEHEHE* IN REMA’S VOICE

Fitness and Social Life: A Balanced Approach
In the vibrant rhythm of my life, keeping fit is a priority for me, and I love going to the gym. The gym serves as both a sanctuary and a stage. People often remark that I don’t look like I have a son, I love how it sounds when I am told. *giggles*
It is a testament to my dedication to maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

However, my routine isn’t just about sculpting my physique, it’s a ritual of self-care and empowerment. Every drop of sweat and every rep is a testament to my discipline and resilience.
Yet, this commitment doesn’t keep me from savouring the joys of life beyond the gym walls.
Swimming? Swimming! Swimming! I Love to Swim; I always feel weightless and free. After a long day at work, imagine me with my Back strokes cutting through the water with grace, mirroring the balance I strive to maintain in every facet of my life.

Traveling! This is another cherished adventure. Whether exploring hidden gems in far-off places or enjoying the thrill of new experiences. I always embrace each journey/trip with enthusiasm. My trips are not just vacations, they are opportunities to recharge, gather new inspiration and create unforgettable memories.

When the sun dips below the horizon, Vanessa’s life transitions from the structured rhythm to the spontaneous beats of her social world.

We outside!

And then there’s the party scene- a very important part of “BALANCE’.

As the Goddess of Vibes, my infectious energy and joy are just as captivating.

Dancing the night away rejuvenates my spirit and allows me celebrate life’s simple pleasures and understand what it means to live fully.

Oh no, it’s coming to an end …. I can go on and on and on but I will need another edition lol.

Can We Really Have It All?
As Vanessa Adams: The Corporate Baddie AKA The Goddess of Vibes, here’s my take.
One profound truth as I navigate through the multifaceted landscape of life becomes evident: the harmony between personal fulfilment and professional success is not just a possibility but a reality! My journey illuminates the idea that with passion, dedication and a keen sense of balance, it is indeed possible to embrace and excel in every aspect of life!

Each facet of my existence- be it my dynamic career, my entrepreneurial spirit, or my vibrant personal life. It interweaves to create a rich and fulfilling narrative.

My professional achievements, from excelling in sales to spearheading innovative ventures, to my fun side – art and music – back to resuming my mummy duties! They all find a way to fit perfectly. They all contribute to a holistic sense of self.
Having a robust support system and unwavering support of my family, the love and encouragement I receive from those around me is an integral part of my success.

My story is a testament to the idea that life is a continuous journey of growth and exploration. The power of integrating diverse aspects of life is not a superpower but rather my professional pursuits and personal passions co-exist and enhance each other.

In other words, all aspects of my life teach all aspects of my life, and all aspects of my life learn from all aspects of my life.

The experiences, the memories, the best Moments, the worst Moments, the different Learnings. The Ups and Downs all make Me!

In essence, my Journey/Life is a beautiful example that suggests that with a passionate heart, a dedicated mind, the support of family, and a strong support system one can indeed have it all.